Intombazane yase-Asia iyazi ukuthi indoda iphethe umuzi. Futhi yingakho nabathandiweyo kufanele bajabule ngayo yonke inhlonipho nokukhuthala. Kunjalo, uyazivumela ukuthi zisebenzise umzimba wakhe ngendlela ezithanda ngayo futhi zimqukule nasembunjini wakhe omanzi. Futhi ngobulili obumnene nesimo sengqondo esifudumele esivela ohlangothini lwabo - ngicabanga ukuthi angakwazi ukuthembela ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Angikholwa! Ngifunde kaningi emaphephandabeni aseNtshonalanga ukuthi ukuziphatha okunjalo kwabaphathi babo kuthathwa njengecala elibi, elihambisana necala lobugebengu. Njengomuntu ophansi kubangelwa ukuhlupheka okungabekezeleleki kokuziphatha, okumhlupha iminyaka eminingi.
Umcabango wensizwa awususwa. Alinde amantombazane ukuthi abuke ifilimu esabekayo bese esondela futhi aqhume ngamunye ngokushintshana. Lapho uvuka futhi ubona imaski, ukhulisa ngokuzenzakalelayo isimo sakho sokwesaba. Futhi lokhu kunezela ukusonteka ocansini, amahomoni amaningi akhululwa, kuhlanganise ne-adrenaline. kungenzeka ukuthi amaqhinga anjalo yena nodadewabo nentombi yakhe bazowenza njalo.
Yilolu hlobo losisi oyislende wonke ubhuti evumela ukuthi asebenze amasende. Futhi lena cishe wayeyijwayele kudala le migilingwane. Okungenani yilokho engangizokwenza. Kuzodingeka ancele futhi ayivule imilenze, pho kungani engenzi ngomuntu wakhe? Sekuyisikhathi sokuthi aphrinte izimbongolo zakhe, futhi, ukuze aqome njengeshende elikhulile. Noma usazama ukugcina ubuntombi bendunu kumyeni wakhe.